Hey Shola, this article is about women, from a woman’s experience! I’m not writing it for men at all, I’m fact, I’m it I said “men can write their own article!” — I don’t pretend to know the male experience…and for the record, yes, the patriarchy is a big problem and creates many issues in our society. As you don’t want me telling men what to do, maybe you should consider putting yourself in a woman’s shoes and thinking about how damaging the patriarchy could be for her/them? Just an idea…