If you’d read the opening, I discuss reclaiming the phrase “big dick energy” for women — as the terms pussy and big dick energy are genderdized — which isn’t fair in the slightest, considering one means weak and one (by society’s standards) means confident. So, yes, I choose witty titles that are eye-grabbing and I reclaim sexist phrases… it’s important to me to get more reads. Medium is a supplement to my income and that means a lot to me. If you have issues with that, we should just add it to the list of your judgmental male gaze opinions on the way I should do things. #patriarchy #patriarchy #patriarchy yes, I went there. Next time read the damn article. DO. BETTER.